Ok so day two of engagement……day two mind you. Now I knew before hand that this could get kind of big, but this was ridiculous. I booked an appointment to meet with the event coordinator at the site that I am interested in. THey have Friday, March 7th available, which will work out perfect. So I tell Obed that I need a list of everyone that he would think of inviting and then trim it down. Well I had about 90 on my list, when Obed finished his we had a total of 250 and that doesn’t inclued children…..and he said he is sure he forgot someone!!!! Needless to say I started to stress…..seriously! And from there emerged our first stress enduced wedding spat.